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Ever wondered why we do the things we do? Why some things make us super happy and others, not so much? Well, Brent Williams, the founder of Empower U, recently broke down a fascinating concept that might just have the answers – the 6 human needs. This idea isn’t just a bunch of boring psychology; it’s like the cheat code to understanding yourself and steering your life towards success.

The 6 Human Needs Simplified

  1. Feeling Safe and Comfy (Certainty/Comfort): We all love to feel safe and have things go as planned, right? It’s about knowing what to expect so we can chill and not worry about what’s coming next.
  2. Spicing Things Up (Uncertainty/Variety): Life would be so boring if everything was predictable. We need surprises, fun, and a bit of adventure to keep things interesting.
  3. Feeling Important (Significance): Everyone wants to feel like they matter, whether it’s being the top scorer on your team or getting that nod of approval from someone you look up to.
  4. Connecting with Others (Love and Connection): From hanging out with friends to feeling close with your family, having strong connections makes everything better.
  5. Growing as a Person (Growth): Whether it’s learning a new skill, overcoming a challenge, or just becoming a better version of yourself, growth is key.
  6. Helping Out (Contribution): There’s something special about helping others and making a difference, even in small ways. It makes us feel part of something bigger.

Why It Matters

Understanding these needs can help you figure out what drives you and how to be happier and more fulfilled. For example, if you’re feeling bored or stuck, maybe you need more Variety or Growth in your life. Or, if you’re feeling lonely, focusing on Love and Connection could be a game-changer.

Dive Deeper with Empower U

Fascinated by the 6 human needs and keen to discover more about yourself? Empower U’s seminars are the perfect place to delve deeper into personal development and set yourself (or your teen) up for success. Our engaging, interactive sessions provide the tools and insights you need to navigate life’s challenges and unlock your full potential. Join us at Empower U and start your journey towards a more fulfilling life today.

Understanding these needs is like having a map for life. By knowing what you’re really after, you can make choices that lead to happiness and success. So, why not explore further with Empower U and truly unlock your potential? Keen to know more? Download our free program guide!

 

Navigating the teenage years can be complex and challenging. At Empower U, we believe in equipping young minds with the tools they need to thrive. One effective way to do this is through reading. Here’s a list of 10 timeless personal development books that can significantly benefit your teenager, aligning perfectly with Empower U’s mission of fostering growth and resilience in young adults.

1. The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens by Sean Covey

This book is a goldmine for teens looking to develop effective habits for success. It’s a spin-off of Stephen Covey’s famous adult version, tailored to address the unique challenges teens face. By reading this, your child will learn about responsibility, goal setting, and the importance of understanding their own values – essential skills we emphasise at Empower U.

2. How to Win Friends and Influence People for Teen Girls by Dale Carnegie & Donna Dale Carnegie

Adapted for teenage girls, this book offers invaluable lessons in building self-esteem and mastering communication skills. It’s a wonderful resource for helping your daughter navigate complex social dynamics, a skill that’s invaluable both in school and in life.

3. Mindset: The New Psychology of Success by Carol S. Dweck

Carol Dweck’s concept of a ‘fixed’ vs. ‘growth’ mindset is transformative. This book will teach your teen that abilities can be developed through dedication and hard work—brains and talent are just the starting point. It’s a lesson in resilience that resonates deeply with our philosophy at Empower U.

4. The Teen’s Guide to World Domination by Josh Shipp

With a blend of humor and wisdom, this book addresses a range of topics from relationships to self-identity. It’s particularly effective for teens seeking practical advice with a relatable and engaging approach – aligning with our mission to make learning fun and impactful.

5. The Power of Positive Thinking for Teens by Norman Vincent Peale

Adapting the timeless principles of positive thinking for a younger audience, this book is an excellent guide for teens. It encourages a positive approach to life’s challenges, echoing our belief at Empower U that a positive mindset is key to personal growth.

6. Who Moved My Cheese? for Teens by Spencer Johnson

This simple parable offers profound insights on adapting to change – a vital skill in today’s fast-paced world. It’s a great tool for helping teens understand and embrace change, preparing them for life’s unpredictable twists and turns.

7. You Are a Badass by Jen Sincero

While not exclusively for teens, this book’s direct and humorous approach to self-empowerment has wide appeal. It encourages readers, including older teens, to step out of their comfort zones and embrace their full potential – a core value we uphold at Empower U.

8. The Confidence Code for Girls by Katty Kay and Claire Shipman

This empowering book is a call to action for young girls to embrace their imperfections and find confidence in themselves. It’s a perfect read for helping your daughter develop the confidence to take on the world, something we’re passionate about at Empower U.

9. Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff for Teens by Richard Carlson

Offering practical advice on keeping calm and managing stress, this book is a treasure trove of wisdom for teenagers. It aligns with our teachings at Empower U, where we emphasise stress management as a critical skill for personal development.

10. The 6 Most Important Decisions You’ll Ever Make by Sean Covey

This book covers critical areas that teens navigate, providing practical advice for making smart, life-altering decisions. It’s a guide that complements our mission at Empower U to empower teens in making informed choices for their future.

These books are more than just readings; they are guides to navigating the complexities of adolescence with confidence and clarity. At Empower U, we encourage the exploration of such resources as part of our commitment to shaping well-rounded, resilient young adults. Each book on this list aligns seamlessly with our ethos, offering wisdom that transcends the classroom and touches upon the very essence of personal growth and development.