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Harnessing the Power of Gratitude: Practical Tips for Teens and Young Adults

In a world where we often focus on what we lack, cultivating an attitude of gratitude can be a game-changer, especially for teens and young adults navigating the complexities of modern life. Brent Williams from Empower U emphasises the profound impact that gratitude can have on our mental and emotional well-being. By shifting our focus from the negatives to the positives, we open ourselves up to a wealth of joy and satisfaction. But how do we make this shift in perspective? Here are some practical, easy-to-implement strategies that Brent suggests for nurturing gratitude in our daily lives, transforming our outlook and enhancing our overall happiness.

1. The Power of Focus

The journey towards cultivating gratitude starts with our focus. What we concentrate on expands in our consciousness. If we dwell on the negative aspects, we might miss out on the positives that surround us. This first step is about consciously choosing to see and appreciate the good in our lives.

2. Gratitude Video (GV)

The Gratitude Video (GV) is a simple yet effective way to practice gratitude. It involves taking a moment each day to record a short video expressing thanks for something or someone in your life. This could be a gesture of appreciation for a friend’s support or a family member’s kindness. Not only does this practice uplift the person you’re thanking, but it also enhances your own feelings of gratitude.

3. Gratitude Letter (GL)

In the digital age, the impact of a handwritten gratitude letter is even more profound. Writing and sending a gratitude letter offers a personal and heartfelt way to express your appreciation. This act has the dual benefit of making the receiver feel valued and deepening your own sense of gratitude.

4. Gratitude Rock (GR)

A Gratitude Rock (GR) acts as a tangible reminder to acknowledge the positive aspects of life. Choose a rock that speaks to you, possibly decorate it, and place it in a spot where you’ll see it every day. Each glimpse of your Gratitude Rock should serve as a prompt to reflect on something you’re grateful for.

5. Gratitude Shot (GS)

The Gratitude Shot (GS) is a brief yet potent exercise. Spend just a minute each day to write down what you’re thankful for. This daily practice can gradually rewire your brain to naturally focus on the positive, transforming how you view the world around you.

6. The Science Behind Gratitude

Scientific research underscores the benefits of gratitude. When we express gratitude, our brain releases chemicals that contribute to a feeling of happiness. Thus, a regular practice of gratitude is not just about acknowledging the good in life; it’s also a pathway to personal joy and contentment.

7. Making Gratitude a Habit

To truly embed gratitude in your life, commit to these practices daily for a week and then weekly for a year. This consistent effort can transform your perspective, leading to a more joyful and fulfilling life.

Gratitude as a Lifelong Journey

Adopting an attitude of gratitude is a continuous journey that enriches every aspect of life. By regularly focusing on the positive, expressing thanks, and making gratitude a habit, you open yourself to a world brimming with happiness and satisfaction.

Empower Your Life with Empower U

At Empower U, we delve into powerful life skills like gratitude that can significantly impact your personal and professional growth. Our workshops across Australia are designed to help teens and young adults like you develop the mindset and skills for a successful and joyful life. Join us at our next workshop to explore more about goal setting, developing healthy habits, and mastering the art of gratitude. Visit our website to learn more and sign up today. Embark on this transformative journey with us and empower your life with gratitude.

How Anxiety Has Slowly Crept Up On Us

A few weeks ago, I did a interview on the Mike Goldman show about Empower U and the changes I’ve seen in teenagers over my years of running the program. While many of the issues that young people face have remained the same in the last 17 years, there has been one topic that has grown exponentially in the last 7-10 years… and that is Anxiety.

20 years ago, no one really knew what the word anxiety even meant, and few people suffered from it. Today however, almost everyone at least knows someone who has anxiety, if not suffers from it themselves in some shape or form. So, what has been the catalyst for this change? Why are we seeing consistently decreasing standards of overall mental health in young people?

In 2008, the iPhone came out… and it was a technological advance that truly changed the world. Today, everyone has a smartphone. We are constantly checking our screens for notifications, messages, and reminders which provide us with external validation. We form a dependency, and even an addiction to these notifications. We’re tuning out of conversations and becoming less present. Whenever we’re in a situation where it might be slightly uncomfortable or awkward, we’re pulling out our phones. Furthermore, a number of studies have shown that constantly being plugged in and receiving notifications is overwhelming our ability to regulate our thoughts and emotions, creating anxiety and distracting us from being present which is what is leading to this massive growth in anxiety.

In order to change, we need to create healthy habits around technology. Set rules and limitations on yourself so that you’re creating time where you can be present. When we’re present, we sit in our own thoughts and we ask ourselves questions. If we’re constantly distracted by technology, we never get the opportunity to have that time with ourselves. We don’t ask ourselves what we want in life. Or how we plan on reaching our goals. Or how we can make a situation better. We just accept what we have and if we don’t like it, we find other means of stimulation to stop thinking about it. It is this lack of being present and asking ourselves the important questions that creates this tension and anxiety in us.

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